Forgive the pun, but what can I say I'm all about the cheap laughs. So I'm not gonna go into what the bears are, you can look all over for that if you want to know. Instead I'll talk about my experiences.I never consider myself a part of the bears just because I don't fit the narrow definition. So maybe I'm an admirer... nah I'm somewhere in the middle. Recently, I went to one of the bars here in Seattle for a bear events. I actually met an online friend there and I had a great time. But I realized something, I was not who I was many years ago when I went out more frequently. I'm now more social, more talkative, more flirty. I was still kinda the scared guy in the bar, but I was not worried about what others thought, I was just having a good time. I recall a saying with age comes wisdom, does confidence come with age too?
Speaking of confidence, do you visit chat sites? It takes a degree of confidence to talk in them, I always wondered why no one spoke to me, then I realized I may need to initiate conversation, as awkward as I am. Anyway, visit
beargrind.com. It's a new chat site for well bears and their admirers. If you are looking around for new friends to talk to well I'm around but there are quite a few others to connect with and it's still growing. I am actively on tumblr and was notified to the site and me being curious I had to check it out. The interface is cool and you can look at messages whenever. Come say hi on there. Lets help a young promising site make it.
